Day 33 ~Outing in Tm~

[Neko4eien]

The day was busy with some random tasks so I even didn’t get a chance to change before going out. IM and I went to buy alcohol and snack for afterparty and we also bought my bd cake for the actual party in Izakaya.

outs and ins

And before we noticed it was time to go to the dorm and to the izakaya. I can not say that it felt like bd party… we were just hanging out, having drinks and chatting… that was the first time I truly realized that I am not being accepted by them as an equal… I am younger foreigner girl… and I guess it’s gonna be that way… They treat me nicely and friendly, but not the same as IM. To them she is kohai and all that stuff, but I am a foreigner afterall. You know, like when friends can tease each other and make fun of each other and that’s normal.. but not with me… I wonder whether it can change…
Anyways dinner was nice! We had some cake. I even got the present – honestly speaking I still do not exactly know what it is – smth like handkerchief or a napkin… looks really nice, but I do not know where to use it.. just too pretty) but anyways it was really nice of them to give me such a present) And they all paid for me as well.
NY went back on his bike, SJ drove us to the apartment and then the afterparty started. Me, IM, KY and Manju (who joined later on) We had shampaigne, some wine, sake, beer… we drank and chatted. Manju asked to show my photos from before… that was unexpected… and I do not have any photos of myself.. so I ended up showing some from vkontakte. Then Manju asked to show my ex-boyfriends.. he is quite smth, right?! It was an interesting episode as well. I wonder maybe I am dumb, but I do not mind answering some questions, so it was even fun XD IM got drunk pretty fast and decided to go back to her room around midnight. And so it was down to the three of us… actually I thought that they would go back soon as well.. but somehow we ended up staying till 4 am… manju was really drunk! He was talking some nonsense about me being his friend and him not thinking whether I am girl or boy, cause I am only friend to him etc. I gues KY stayed behind so that I would not be stuck with manju on my own… and thanks for that… however manju started talking about biology and babies and sex… well, I had various types of conversations with my male friends and I am not shy Japanese girl, so you can not make me embarresed with such talks. But I guess KY was the one who was feeling uncomfortable and embaressed for manju XD. Anyways KY dragged manju out around 4 am and I was left alone in the room with tons of alcohol (they didn’t drink much but got drunk fast) I talked to my family on skype and went to bad around 5 am… that’s what was my Japanese bd like.